This is Exactly How Much Time You Should Spend With Your Partner Each Week, According to Psychology Contrary to popular belief, you can spend too much time with your partner.While you might be excited to share all of your experiences with your partner, especially during the honeymoon phase, its necessary that you also take time for yourself and the other people and things in your life that make you happy. In other words, diving headfirst into a relationship can often be at the expense of other relationships with friends, family and personal hobbies and thats not healthy.So how much time exactly should you spend with your partner? Well, that depends both on your relationship and how youre spending your time.Couples, on average, spend about two to two and a half hours a day together, including weekends, according to the Office for National Statistics. That time is largely spent watching television (one-third of all the time spent together), eating (30 minutes) and doing housework together (24 minutes).